The one thing I get asked the most, when
dealing with debt, is what do you do when medical bills happen. For
all of us, we will receive medical treatment at one time or another
in our life. Whether it is for that flu that landed you in the ER or
that appendix you needed removed, either way you will find yourself
needing medical care and receiving bills later on for that care. I
know many people who say “just get insurance and you'll be ok”,
but this is not always the saving grace. Even with insurance, medical
bills can rack up quicker then we thought was possible. Having a
plan for when medical emergencies happen, will help you when you are
in a time of need.
For most medical visits, you will pay a
co-pay. Your insurance should be able to tell you what that co-pay
is, if you have one. Multiply your co-pay by how many people in your
family. This will tell you how much it will cost for each member to
have a yearly checkup. For my family of four, with a $30 co-pay, we
would need to save $120 a year just for that yearly doctor checkup.
Divide that by 12 months and we only have to save $10 a month for our
yearly doctors visits. Breaking it down and adding a little bit each
month, as opposed to paying a lump sum is much more doable. We do
this with other medical expenses as well.
If you know how much it cost to got to
the dentist, receive shots, etc. than you can plan ahead for it. It
is so important to plan ahead for these medical emergencies, because
no matter how much we don't want them to happen, they will. Doing a
bit more work now, will save you later on.
If you have had a medical emergency and
now find yourself in a pile of debt, no matter how much you planned
ahead, all is not lost either lovelies. I promise. A few years ago we
had a similar experience, where all of our planning ahead only made a
small dent in our medical expenses. Hubby got sick and had to spend a
few days in the hospital. Many tests were run and when it was time to
give him a clean bill of health, we had racked up thousands of
dollars in hospital bills. We were forlorn. We had no clue how we
would pay that bill. At first we were frustrated. All of our careful
budgeting and work had only made a small dent in our bill. We were
able to use our emergency fund and the funds we saved into our
medical category, but we still owed more. Hubby and I didn't know
what we were going to do remove to ourselves from the mountain of debt
we were in. It was quite a trying circumstance we found ourselves in.
I am so thankful for the doctors that helped him and the treatment he
received, but now we were left with a mailbox full of doctor bills,
we couldn't pay. If only I could lock up our mailbox and tell them we
weren't accepting mail anymore, but that wasn't realistic. We cannot
lock our problems away or bury them in a hole. They will still be
there. We can't run from them. No matter how scary or nauseating it
may be to face them, we must. We must take control of our finances
because if we don't, then who will?
I remember falling to the floor in the
bathroom and crying. I seem to have a history of crying on bathroom
floors. I became a weepy mess on that tiled floor. I had no clue what
we were going to do. We had been living frugally. Our budget was
tight, but we were making it. I felt like we could finally breath,
until a curve ball was sent our way that landed hubby in the
hospital. As I cried, I prayed. I prayed really hard. I knew that
everything we were going through was beyond me. I was at a lost of
what to do. Then a sweet message came to me, “You already know
what to do”. I paused and thought, “I do?” The
things was, I did know what to do. I had learned years before what to
do to get of credit card debt. Those steps were exactly the same
steps I could use to get us out of medical debt now. It would be a
lot of hard work and require sacrifice on our part, but together as a
family we would get through this. After that, I pulled myself up off
that bathroom floor and dried my tears. I knew I was not alone. I had
a Heavenly Father who loved me and was aware of my circumstance. I
could use my own knowledge to take control. When you stand up and
take control of a trial, it is such an empowering thing. It makes you
feel like you can do anything.
We took out all of our medical bills and
categorized them by amount, less to greatest. Just like you do when
getting out of credit card debt, you can do the same for medical
bills. We started putting any extra money we had towards the smallest
bill and we continued this pattern, using the snowball technique, until
all of our medical bills were paid off. It took quite sometime, but
we were able to do it. If we ever received extra money, we put it
towards our debt. What a wonderful moment that was when we sent in our
last payment. It was amazing. It had been hard, but as a family we
did it.
Another thing did was that we called all of the doctors offices and the hospital to explain our situation. We explained that we wanted to pay our bills, but could only do so much each month. By being honest, we were able to get set up on payments plans. Some doctors offices also reduced our cost for paying some bills off in one lump sum or by calling and talking with them about our circumstances. I think the more honest you are the better. Doctors want their money, they don't want to send you to collections. Explain your situation and what you could realistically pay.
Hospitals are use to working with people. Hospital stays are expensive, so they have divisions that work with people to get their bills paid. When we started out our hospital debt was over $70,000. That was astronomical. We couldn't pay that off and we didn't want to file bankruptcy. We weren't sure what to do. After talking with the hospital, they worked with us. They work with different non-profit charities that help pay hospital bills like that. We were able to get our bill reduced to under $10,000. That was such a blessing. Every spare penny we had, went towards that debt. Any money I made from this blog went towards that debt. It can be done. We said no to going out a lot, but we knew that doing a bit more work now, would help us later on.
If you find yourself in medical debt,
know that not all hope is lost. Bankruptcy does not have to be the
answer. With a little hard work and dedication, you can make a
difference in your life!
XO Danielle
We've experienced this same scenario this year, and my husband changing jobs mid way through which started up a new deductible making our costs even higher. It's been an incredible struggle to financially get through it (and we're not quite done yet), but I wouldn't change the way we handled it at all. I'm empowered to be and take responsibility for my expenses and am showing my child that is the way to handle them, instead of panicking and walking away like others in my family have done. Thank you for sharing your story and spreading this important message!
ReplyDeleteThank you for this post. I've struggled with this in the past too. It's amazing how much prayer works and how we can be blessed by doing our best to make things right. Keep up the good work.
ReplyDeleteI cannot believe that anyone thinks the NHS is a bad thing. It terrifies me that in a country like the US people have to make the choice between health and bankruptcy. I understand the NHS in the UK isn't perfect but you have the choice to get extra cover or get extra private treatments if you want. The thing is that it's unheard of for people to lose their life savings due to getting ill in the UK. I can't believe how horrible it must feel to be diagnosed, say, with cancer and realise not only the life implications but also the financial ones on your family.
ReplyDeleteBut for the budgeting question; for other things / setting aside for the life emergencies; I always take out a good portion of my salary each month which goes straight into a savings account. I don't see it, I don't think about it so I don't spend it. When I get to the end of my current account, I stop (unless I have some one off or rare purchases that month, e.g. a new piece of furniture.) I set it up as a standing order so my bank takes it out and puts it into another account for me. It definitely helps me budget because on the occasions I do dip into savings (which is rare), I really think about it, what I'm buying and why.
What an encouraging story! Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteGreat information! I had to have surgery and a 10 day hospital stay in the US while a student there and even with insurance I had to pay about $8,000 out of pocket. We had no idea how we were going to pay it but somehow we managed to. I think that this family could use your help in negotiating with hospitals and which charities they could apply to for help. http://globalnews.ca/news/1679588/dream-vacation-in-hawaii-turns-into-financial-nightmare-for-saskatchewan-couple/
ReplyDeleteWhat a great encouragement and reminder that we can trust the Lord in the difficult financial times as well! A few years ago, my parents bought a house outright with money from selling an old house. For about 6 hours they were completely debt free for the first time. That night my sister had to have her appendix out....costing them thousands of dollars for 2 nights in the hospital. We had no insurance. It took 5 years, but they paid off all those bills using this same strategy and trusting the Lord to meet our needs! He is truly able to care for His children.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for linking up to the Weekend Wind-Down party. Would you consider adding our button or a text link somewhere on your site so we can feature you? Thanks!
Nicole =)